Beauty In Times Like These

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These days we are told to stay home and not go anywhere unless we have to go get groceries or go to work if we are considered essential. Time has seemed to slow down. I read more and more people having more time for things that under normal circumstances they would not have time for.  People are finding more time for what is important in life. The simple things are coming back into play.

It makes me think of when I was a kid. We were never as busy as people today. Mom went to work as a teacher and Dad worked on the farm. We had activities in the church ad community. We always made time for family. After Dad passed in 1994, Mom picked up the farm work.

As a kid, I learned the meaning of hard work. We always had chores, did our homework, went to school, went to church, respected our elders, and never complained about what was fixed to eat. We learned to help others. Dad was always helping the elderly neighbors or any neighbor that needed help. He said it was doing the Lord’s work. Mom was also always helping others.

In the Summer we raised a garden and I remember many stories of the gardens that Dad’s family raised as a kid. My favorite thing about Summer was when the tomatoes would get on the vine and be green Dad would have me run to the garden to pick as many as my arms could carry and bring home. Our garden was next to Grandma’s house just up the road. I would pick the biggest ones that I could and after a few times became smart and took a bag or bucket to put my reward in.

Once home we would wash a few and Dad would go to work. He would slice potatoes and tomatoes in thin round slices. Then he would fry them. Once fried he would take two slices of bread, put mayo on both slices, add a slice of tomato and a slice of potato on one slice of bread, and then top with the other bread slice. This was something that Grandma made him growing up. It was a treat in the Summer to have this sandwich.

I remember times when Dad would take us along to help with the haymaking. One time I drove the tractor around the field while Dad and several men stacked hay on a wagon. Dad’s help would throw the square bales up to Dad on the wagon and he would stack the wagon up. Once the wagon was full, Dad would take over the driving and we would go fill the barn. Pitching hay bails was fun.

These days these are things that kids of this generation never get to experience. We live in a fast pace world to which there is no time for the simple things in life. Now with all that is going on in the world, we have time for the simple things in life. We have time to enjoy the beauty of the simple things.

I believe that all that is going on in the world is getting us to find the beauty in the simple things. If we would just do this every day the world would be a better place. If we just got back to the simple ways of life we would be happier and the world would be better.

God has given us all this beauty to enjoy. We really need to take the time to stop and enjoy it while we can. We never know when our time on this Earth will be over. Take time to enjoy life. This is a time to get back to God.

I think Reba says it best in her song Back To God.

April Fools: Happy 40th Birthday Jeremiah

Today marks the first day of April. As we turn the page to another month it reminds me that today is the 40th birthday of my ex-boyfriend Jeremiah who we call Bug. I met Bug on Facebook on May 22, 2011. He sent me a private message telling me about himself and that he knew a friend of mine. We started talking online almost every day after that.

It took a very long time for me to get up the courage to meet Jeremiah in person. I met him for the first time at the Tri-County Fair in Petersburg, WV. It was a warm August Night. I arrived and after entering the fair I went over to the exhibit hall and waited. I almost missed him that night. Jeremiah had decided that he was not going to come out to the fair that night. Then issues at home made him decide that he was coming to the fair to get away from it all.

He happened to be walking by the exhibit hall and lookup. He saw me and smiled. I was happy to see him and nervous at the same time. We went for a stroll through the exhibit hall and he showed me all of his exhibits that he entered into the fair. I was amazed and excited.

We spent the evening walking around the fair and talking. I loved spending time with him. It was a magical night. Driving home that night all I could think about was him. I could not get that night off my mind for a while.

The next Spring things went wrong and we broke it off. I am glad that we did. It took me a long time to realize that he was never going to be right for me. I think I was trying to make more of it than what he was willing to put in it.

Since that time I have moved on. I am not in a new relationship, but I have moved on. I still remember some things from my time with Jeremiah, but I have forgotten a lot of it. I know that he has moved on and is very happy or so I have been told. I am happy for him.

I will always remember Jeremiah’s birthday. Why? Well, because it reminds me of how much of a fool I was to think that he would ever love me at all. It reminds me of how much of a fool I was to believe that he ever cared for me in the beginning. I was a fool from the start to be taken in by him.

Today I wish Jeremiah a Happy 40th Birthday! I hope you are happy and have many more happy birthdays to come.